Planning a wedding or elopement as an LGBTQ couple is an exciting milestone, but it also comes with unique considerations. Whether you’re dreaming of a private mountain top elopement or an intimate ceremony with close loved ones, here’s everything you need to know to ensure a seamless experience full of queer joy.
1. Choose LGBTQ-Friendly Vendors
One of the most important aspects of your wedding or elopement is working with vendors who are not only accepting but affirming. Look for photographers, officiants, florists, and planners who specifically highlight their experience with LGBTQ couples. Many vendors will say “LGBTQ friendly” on their social media or website, but look for proof in the clients they have posted, and testimonials shared.
💡 Pro Tip: As a queer photographer, I understand the importance of creating a safe and welcoming space where you can be your authentic selves. My inclusive elopement packages ensure a stress-free wedding planning experience with local vendors who support and celebrate LGBTQ love.
2. Know the Legalities of Marriage in Your Location
Marriage equality is recognized across the United States, but certain local laws and regulations might still impact your ceremony. Make sure to check the marriage license requirements for your state or county. In North Carolina, for example, you’ll need to apply for a license in person, and there is no waiting period before you can have your ceremony. That being said, there has been some question around officiants that are ordained online and the legality of it, so to be safe - plan to get married officially at the courthouse.
3. Find the Perfect LGBTQ-Friendly Location
Choosing a location that feels safe and welcoming is crucial. Whether you want a dreamy elopement in the Blue Ridge Mountains, a waterfall backdrop in Western NC, or an intimate celebration in Asheville, there are plenty of stunning spots to consider.
💡 Pro Tip: If you’re unsure where to elope, I can help with location scouting to find the perfect secluded or scenic spot that fits your vision. I travel everywhere from North Georgia to Eastern Tennessee, including all of North Carolina and South Carolina - so the options are endless!
4. Make Your Ceremony Personal
Your love story is unique, and your wedding should be too. Whether you want a traditional ceremony or something completely nontraditional, you have the freedom to craft vows and rituals that reflect your relationship.
💡 Pro Tip: Wedding planning can be stressful and lonely, and family drama often can ruin the mood. My elopement packages include full planning assistance, a custom ceremony creation service, ensuring that your vows and rituals are deeply personal and meaningful. No family drama required!
5. Capture the Moment with an LGBTQ-Inclusive Photographer
Your wedding or elopement photos should reflect your authentic love and emotions. Finding a photographer who understands LGBTQ couples can make all the difference in how comfortable and celebrated you feel in front of the camera.
💡 Pro Tip: My documentary-style photography captures candid, raw moments with a moody, vintage aesthetic—perfect for couples who want timeless and artistic wedding images.
6. Enhance Your Experience with Special Touches
If you’re eloping, you can still make the experience luxurious and memorable. Adding personal florals, a luxury picnic, a Polaroid keepsake album, or celebratory drinks and desserts can elevate your elopement beyond just an exchange of vows.
💡 Pro Tip: My all-inclusive elopement packages provide these thoughtful details so you can focus on what truly matters—each other. Book a hotel and bring a dress, and I will handle the rest!
Final Thoughts
Getting married or eloping as an LGBTQ couple should be a joyful and stress-free experience. By choosing inclusive vendors, knowing the legalities, and personalizing your ceremony, you can create a day that feels truly special. If you’re looking for an LGBTQ-friendly photographer who offers full-service, intimate elopements in Western North Carolina, South Carolina, North Georgia, and Eastern Tennessee, I’d love to help bring your vision to life.
